Care guide

Live-in care or a care home?

An honest, side-by-side comparison of care, cost, independence and funding, to help families decide what is right.

In short

Live-in care gives one-to-one support in your own home, keeps couples and pets together and avoids a move. A care home gives a staff team on site day and night and a ready-made community, and suits people whose home cannot be adapted or who need several staff at once. Neither is right for everyone.

Side by side

 Live-in careCare home
WhereYour own homeA shared home with other residents
AttentionOne carer focused on youStaff shared between residents
RoutineYours: you choose when to get up, eat and go outBuilt around the home’s timetable, with some choice
CouplesStay together at home, often with one carerMay be possible if a shared room is available
PetsStay with youSome homes accept pets
NightsCarer sleeps at home; regular night help needs extra coverNight staff on site
NursingCommunity nurses visitNursing homes have nurses on site
Your homeNeeds a spare bedroom for the carerYour home may be sold or rented

Cost

The NHS website gives a guide of around £800 to £1,600 a week for live-in care. Care home fees vary widely by area and by whether nursing is needed. For a couple, one live-in carer can cost less than two care home places. See what home care costs.

Funding differences

This is where the two differ most. For care in your own home, the council does not count the value of your home. For a permanent care home place, your home can be counted unless a partner or certain relatives still live there. The council must offer a deferred payment agreement in some cases, so the home does not have to be sold in your lifetime. Read paying for care in England.

When live-in care tends to work best

  • The person is settled at home and a move would be distressing, as often with dementia.
  • A couple want to stay together.
  • There is a spare bedroom for the carer.
  • One carer can safely meet the person’s needs, with visits from nurses and therapists.

When a care home may be better

  • The person needs two or more staff at once, often, through day and night.
  • The home cannot be made safe or has no room for a carer.
  • The person is lonely and would enjoy the company of others.
  • Complex nursing needs that a nursing home is set up for.

If you are not sure, talk to us. We will tell you honestly if we think live-in care is not the right answer.

FAQ

Questions families ask

Is live-in care cheaper than a care home?
It depends. For one person with high needs, costs can be similar. For a couple, one live-in carer often costs less than two care home places. The NHS website gives a guide of around £800 to £1,600 a week for live-in care.
Do I have to sell my house to pay for live-in care?
No. When the council assesses what you pay for care in your own home, the value of your home is not counted.
Can someone with dementia have live-in care?
Yes. Live-in care is often chosen for people living with dementia because it avoids the upheaval of a move and keeps familiar routines.

Arrange care at home

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